Love is about freedom!

Love is not about control. Ultimately, love is about freedom.

The real beauty of love is experienced when two lovers help each other be free while knowing they will always come back to each other.

It is very similar to the people who keep flocks of pigeons. The pigeons are free to fly away and they do! They fly around the neighborhood and community yet the pigeons always come back to where they have shelter and food.

True love is about letting your partner be free. In true love, it is like your partner really does have the key to your heart and with this key, your partner is able to unlock your heart thus freeing you from yourself.

In this act of freeing, love begins to pour out of you from inside out. It appears that your partner is giving you love, but it is actually the love inside of you oozing out of yourself.

It takes a special partner to unlock your heart and when it happens, the power of the love is beyond description.

When you surrender your love to your partner, you are not inviting your partner to attack you or hurt you. Any partner that does attack you or purposely hurts you is not a good partner. When you surrender your love you are in fact saying that you are defenseless yet you know that your partner will not hurt you.

Surrendering your love is the first step to loving with freedom.

Surrendering love to your partner is a mutual act. Both partners ultimately need to surrender their love to the other. If only one partner surrenders then it isn't love.

Once you surrender your love then your partner can unlock the key to your heart. When this happens then the love you have inside oozes out with joy. There is nothing more beautiful than when two partners share the freedom of love.