Saturday, 3 November 2012

Do you actually need Emotional Card and Career Card?

Every now and then we come across several people in our life. The fact is that we live in the era of smart phones and stupid people. Mostly, the conversation among them starts with a sentence “Hi…How are you?” (The way of asking may be different). But the most pathetic thing is that no one actually knows, “How they actually are?”

 Do you know why?

It’s simple, human nature is to peep in others house i.e. people are interested in knowing others stuff rather than actually knowing their own. Yes, it’s good knowing people as you can learn a lot from others as well. But, before learning from others we have to learn ourselves.

People usually go for the career in the field suggested by others i.e. either science or commerce. But, have you ever spent time in knowing which career are you apt for and want to go for?

Is it the facebook app that is going to decide?
a)     Your career on the basis of your name.
b)    How much your partner loves you on the basis of date of birth?
c)     And the list goes on…

May be it can, because we live in, “The Tech Era” where everything is controlled by the collection of electronic cards – Visa Card, Maestro Card, PAN Card etc. Technology has made our life so comfortable and everything is at ease with it. So, there is need to judge the stupid people with electronic cards.

And yes, the pace with which the technology is growing, the day is not far when two most important cards will be developed:
a)     Emotional Card: To judge your emotions and the way you feel.
b)    Career Card: To judge the career apt for you on the basis of your previous records.

Isn't it???  

We live in the digital world having keyword binary logic (0 or 1). But have you heard of the term called, “Fuzzy Logic”. In fuzzy logic, value other than 1 or 0 are also possible such as 0.8 and 0.9 are almost 1 and 0.2 and 0.1 are almost 0. This can be considered as a scale of degrees of truth.
We can test this hypothesis on something we all use every day in our lives, such as an elevator. If you recall, the old vintage elevators used to come to an abrupt stop when they reached their designated floor. They were based on binary logic. That is, if a floor is there or not, the elevator keeps on moving or stops abruptly when pressed to do so, and there is no third possibility.  However, with the development of what is known as “fuzzy logic” and its practical applications in everyday life, the elevators, now come to a very smooth stop, when desired.

Fuzzy Logic is just a new way of thinking called, “thinking outside the box”. It follows the footsteps of the third way of, “The Bhagwad Gita”. In the Gita, we are told, that behind a man’s actions there are generally two types of attitudes, namely:
1) ‘I shall work and, therefore, I shall enjoy the fruits of my actions because I have a right to it’.
2) ‘If I am not to enjoy the fruits of my actions, that is, if there is nothing in it for me, then I will not act at all’.
However, the Bhagavad-Gita, verse 2:47 gives us yet another attitude of mind or a way of life, which says: karmanya vaadhika raste maa phaleshu kadaachan…. You must of course act, but don’t think you have a right to the fruit of your actions.”  This is the Third Way, as the modern terminology describes it, that is: “Perform your duty for duty’s sake only.”

Similarly, when someone asks you, “How are you?”

Have you ever replied in a third way?

Normally we either say good or bad but have you ever said, “I am not good.” You must be thinking, “Am I gone crazy asking stupid questions again& again.”

But the fact is that when you actually say that, “I am not good”. You actually feel good.
Now the question pops out…Why So???

You have to perform a small exercise with me then you will know this. You have to just read a sentence, think it and then tell me what you actually thought. 

The sentence is:
 “Not to think of the elephant wearing pink shoes.”

What is the result?

You must have thought about the elephant wearing pink shoes. Isn't it?

Why it happened?

Because our subconscious mind ignores the word called, “not” .We actually do the things that we are not supposed to do.

In this way, thinking outside the box you can say, “I am not good.” Your subconscious mind will ignore the not from it and then you will only be left with, “I am good.”

Similarly, we know:
“Be the change you wish to see in the world.”  ------Mahatma Gandhi

To see the change in the world, you have to be that change and thinking outside the box for being that change you have to first, “Know Thyself”.

“Know Thyself” is the keyword of universal language which will lead you to the happiness and excellence then success will surely follow you.

I apologize if you found this article absurd and if it was just a waste of time for you. But, I would be really appreciated if you “liked” it. I would be more appreciated if you “disliked” it. And, I would be appreciated to the power infinity if have “not liked” it as I know you must have applied the third way then and your subconscious mind would have surely liked it.

Now, you must be wondering , article has been finished but how to get the answer to, “Do you actually need Emotional card and Career card?”

So, Here is the answer:

If you come among the above three categories: liked, disliked & not liked. Then, I think you actually know how you felt after reading it. So you don’t need those cards.
But, if you don’t know, “How you felt?” after reading. Then sorry to say you have to wait until those cards get developed…. Isn't it????